Monday, January 31, 2011

Really all I want is to take to the streets and have a glorious fight to the...

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I don't want sustainable life.  I want an excuse to go out like a martyr, with an appropriate amount of glory, and just never have to worry about shit else from that point on

I want a full, adventurous, 30 year life-span of badassery and then I just want to call it a day.

The. End.


 
 

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Friday, January 28, 2011

"Defined more carefully, slow photography is the effort to flip the usual re...

 
 

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"Defined more carefully, slow photography is the effort to flip the usual relationship between process and results. Usually, you use a camera because you want the results (the photos). In slow photography, the basic idea is that photos themselves—the results—are secondary. The goal is the experience of studying some object carefully and exercising creative choice. That's it. Step 1 in slow photography is spending a long time studying the subject. As one guide enjoins, "pay more attention to your subject than to your camera." That's an order to actually use your eyes. It calls for consideration not just of what you think you see (a tree or a dog) but of the colors and shapes that present themselves. Thinking dog or tree can blind you to what you are really seeing—which is, in the end, a series of photons arranged in a way that for convenience you call dog. It may sound like semantics, but it makes all the difference. When you look carefully and avoid trying to label what you see, you inevitably start to notice things that you mightn't have otherwise. If Step 1 is a long consideration of the subject, Step 2 is the exercise of creative choices—the greatest pleasure that our automatic cameras rob us of. What should be in the frame and what should be excluded is the most obvious decision, but there's also exposure, depth of field, and more technical choices beyond that. Making such deliberate decisions requires a little bit of courage, for you cannot blame the camera if the results are bad. Yet these choices are, to my mind, the whole game. They are what individualizes photography, what puts the stamp of your personality on the photo. After taking these two steps, taking the photo becomes irrelevant. You've already had the experience. At this stage, you could shoot with a filmless camera, and the process could retain its power. In the logic of slow photography, the only reason to take photos is to gain access to the third stage, playing around in post-production, whether in a darkroom or using photo-editing tools, an addictive pleasure. In my experience, slow photography is a deeply enjoyable and almost hypnotic experience. The hours seem to zip by, especially when you're alone."<br/><br/> - <em><a href="http://www.slate.com/id/2279659/pagenum/all/#p2">The slow-photography movement asks what is the point of taking pictures? - By Tim Wu - Slate Magazine</a></em>

 
 

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I FINALLY have a word for it.

 
 

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I FINALLY have a word for it.


 
 

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Monday, January 24, 2011

I FINALLY have a word for it.

 
 

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I FINALLY have a word for it.


 
 

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Sunday, January 23, 2011

Don't Go Back To Sleep

 
 

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crashinglybeautiful:

For years, copying other people, I tried to know myself.
From within, I couldn't decide what to do.
Unable to see, I heard my name being called.
Then I walked outside.

The breeze at dawn has secrets to tell you.
Don't go back to sleep.
You must ask for what you really want.
Don't go back to sleep.
People are going back and forth across the doorsill
where the two worlds touch.
The door is round and open.
Don't go back to sleep.

-Rumi

Thank you to the Caravan of Dreams


 
 

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Thursday, January 13, 2011

How to Fuck Up

 
 

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How to Fuck Up:

this is what I am reading now - an article linked from Questioning Transphobia's 101 - and I am going to follow these steps as best I can, and will most certainly fuck up in the un-fucking-up process. but here goes.

When you "Fuck Up" (whether the fuck-up is minor or major) practice the "Four A's".

  1. Acknowledgment
  2. Apology
  3. Amends
  4. Action
#1) Acknowledgment — is really important, IMO, because if you don't realize what you actually did, and how it was "fucked up", there's a high probability that you are going to do it again — a very high probability.

#2) Apology — is also really important — but it has to be genuine (which requires #1 - Acknowledgment). Saying things like "I'm sorry if you felt bad about what I said/wrote" or "I'm sorry if your feelings got hurt", is, IMO, completely different from saying "I'm sorry that I said/wrote that. I see how it was fucked up, and here's how I know that it was fucked up … . . ". (Keep in mind that "if" is a word reserved for hypotheticals, and doesn't usually refer to real life. When used in apology, "if" is usually just a dilutive, and if you can't really apologize, then don't apologize at all. Sort of a perverse Thumper ethic.)

#3) Amends — sometimes the energy required to actually think about how you fucked up and make an honest acknowledgment/apology is enough to return balance to the situation (depends on the type of fuck up, though). In some cases, "making amends" might also mean returning money/energy/time that your fuck-up created for someone else. This can be returned in any of a number of creative ways. Example: If you got all defensive in an argument, and therefore the argument took eight hours instead of 30 minutes… consider just giving the person with whom you got all defensive eight hours of your time to do for them something that they might have gotten done if you hadn't been all uppity-up in yourself being a defensive shit (not that I've ever done that … .no, that has never happened with me… . . OK, maybe just that once … OK — Fuck it! I'm completely busted here … .)

#4) Action — This may be the most important of the 4 A's. If you know that you did something that was fucked up, and you've expressed that you're genuinely sorry that you did this fucked up thing, then really, the only concrete evidence of this will be that you will change what you do in the future. For me, if I don't take this step (action), the other three are just so much manipulation.

I need to be clear on what I'm acknowledging, and honest about the consequences. so right now I'm going to go read what people wrote on the reblogs of my furious, prescriptive, poorly-thought-out, mess of a last post, and think about them, and then proceed using this model.


 
 

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Tuesday, January 11, 2011

Age of Reason: Dalai Lama's 18 Rules for Living

 
 

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Age of Reason: Dalai Lama's 18 Rules for Living:

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At the start of the new millennium the Dalai Lama apparently issued eighteen rules for living.
1. Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk. 
2. When you lose, don't lose the lesson. 
3. Follow the three Rs: 
     1. Respect for self 
     2. Respect for others

     3. Responsibility for all your actions.   
4. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.   
5. Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly.   
6. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.   
7. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.   
8. Spend some time alone every day.   
9. Open your arms to change, but don't let go of your values.  
10. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.  
11. Live a good, honourable life. Then when you get older and think back, you'll be able to enjoy it a second time.  
12. A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life.  
13. In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. Don't bring up the past.  
14. Share your knowledge. It's a way to achieve immortality.  
15. Be gentle with the earth.  
16. Once a year, go someplace you've never been before.  
17. Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other.  
18. Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.

Number 4! Number 4! Going from A+ to fail minus college student killed my law school dreams… But it gave me room to realize I was just trying to please my parents! And Law was almost the opposite of what I want to do with life! Yaaaay for failure! :]


 
 

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Thursday, January 06, 2011

Everytime I stand up for myself....I am scared...

 
 

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yes, I may be all fearlessand vulnerable and ROOOOAAWR. But in reality….I be scared that when I stand up for myself that the person may not fuck with me no more.

And you know what blood, thats none of my business.

I'd rather you be mad @ me than me be mad @ you.

My feelings are my job. Not yours.

#Pow. Stand up for yourself. Its contagious.

#NoOutcomes.

#NohandsMa.


 
 

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"Bad things are always going to happen in life. People will hurt you. But yo...

 
 

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"Bad things are always going to happen in life. People will hurt you. But you can't use that as an excuse to fail or to hurt someone back. You'll only hurt yourself."

- Unknown (via kari-shma)

 
 

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Wednesday, January 05, 2011

Tuesday, January 04, 2011

shogunpassion: Costa Careyes, Mexico

 
 

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Costa Careyes, Mexico


 
 

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Monday, January 03, 2011

"I know with my family that even as my writing functioned to separate me fro...

 
 

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""I know with my family that even as my writing functioned to separate me from them…it has freed me to love them from places within myself that had before been mired in unexpressed pain. Writing has ultimately brought them back to me.""

- CherrĂ­e Moraga (Loving in the War Years)

 
 

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"These seem to be two contradictory messages. On the one hand, people are su...

 
 

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"These seem to be two contradictory messages. On the one hand, people are supposed to speak up when they're being assaulted or harassed, or it's their fault. On the other hand, speaking up makes you a shrill bitch. What's it going to be? Are you going to be the shrill bitch who doesn't let them get away with it, or are you going to be the meek victim who deserves what you get? Because these seem to be the two available choices."

- meloukhia

 
 

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